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Rabbi Eliezer Zalmanov

Courage Over Comfort

This week, as we reflect on the tragic loss of Guy Shabtay, of blessed memory, a young man who stood for truth and integrity, we are reminded of a deep and timeless lesson: Sometimes, being true to our values requires stepping beyond what feels natural or comfortable.


The Torah teaches us about Abraham, a man whose life was defined by kindness and hospitality. His tent was always open, and his heart always ready to give. Yet when he saw the angels heading toward Sodom to destroy it, something shifted. Abraham understood that this was no time for passive kindness or silent acceptance.


Instead, he did what was difficult. He argued with G-d, challenging the divine plan and pleading for the lives of the people in Sodom. “Shall the Judge of the entire earth not do justice?” he asked boldly.


For someone like Abraham, this was a leap. It went against his nature to confront and demand. But when lives were on the line, he rose above his natural tendencies. He taught us that when faced with the opportunity to help or save others, we cannot hold back. We must act—even if it means stepping outside our comfort zones.


This lesson resonates deeply as we think about the life of Guy, who lost his life this week defending the people and the Land of Israel. Guy was a naturally quiet person. He wasn’t one to draw attention to himself or dominate a room. But beneath his calm and reserved demeanor was a person of deep conviction, a man of action.


When the moment called for it, Guy never hesitated to speak up. He stood firm for his Torah beliefs and for the Jewish people’s eternal connection to the Land of Israel. He didn’t shy away from defending what was right, even if it meant stepping out of his natural quietness. In his own way, Guy lived the lesson of Abraham.


We often think of courage as loud and bold, but Guy showed us that courage can also be quiet, steady, and unshakable. It’s not about making noise—it’s about having the strength to act when it matters most.


Abraham’s plea for Sodom and Guy’s life share a common thread: The courage to act for others and for truth, even when it doesn’t come easily.


Each of us has traits that define us. Some of us are naturally kind, others strong, and still others thoughtful or patient. These qualities are gifts, but they’re also starting points. Judaism teaches us that real growth happens when we push ourselves to go beyond what feels natural.


When we see someone in need—physically, emotionally, or spiritually—we can’t let our natural hesitations hold us back. Like Abraham and like Guy, we’re called to step up, even when it’s hard. Life will always present moments that challenge us to rise above ourselves. Whether it’s speaking up for someone in need, standing firm in our faith, or defending what’s right, those moments define who we are.


Guy’s life reminds us of this responsibility. In a world that often values noise over substance, his quiet strength stands as an example for all of us. He didn’t seek recognition or applause, but he didn’t shy away from doing what was right. His commitment to his values, his faith, and the Jewish people is a legacy we must carry forward.


As we mourn his loss, we’re also inspired by his example. Let’s honor his memory by living with purpose and courage. Let’s be unwavering in our beliefs, unafraid to act when the moment calls for it, and deeply connected to our people and our land.


May Guy’s memory be a blessing, and may it inspire us to live with courage, integrity, and faith, carrying forward the mission of the Jewish people with strength and hope.


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